Ok, I've been wondering...how come non dutch people think its alright for a girl to tell a guy that she likes him, but dutch people think that they should never tell a guy that she likes him??
Cuz today this man at work told me that I should have told this one guy that I liked him.. but it was hard to explain to this man..that it should be the male who go after the female..
And some guys who I've asked this question..just a little bit differently..said that they wouldn't care if a girl told them or not..and some said that it would be good for a girl to.. But...those guys I asked.. were all DESPERATE..so that might make a difference.
It's been bugging me. What is your opinion.. leave a comment..please..
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well, i think that you should wait it out and see if its a mutual feeling. you dont want to seem forward and guys can get scared off...i say pray about it okay? see how God makes you feel about it. have you talked to an older woman in your church, maybe your mom or someone you trust? older women possess an abundance of wisdom...they get it from life experience. :)
Well, from past experiences, my mom said that I shouldn't say anything..and that the guy should be the one to make the first move.
I guess it to depends on the guy..
Any other opinions??
I totally think the guy should make the first move. The Man is suppose to the head of the household. How can we exspect him to do that when we take charge of the relationship in the first place? Honestly I think we are really lacking in "real" men in the world. Outside or inside the church. Just my opinion of course.
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